X.  Fulfilling Relationships & Sensuality 

The Unimaginable Life: Lessons Learned on the Path of Love, Kenny & Julia Loggins, 1997.   This book helped me vividly understand the paradox of love - experiencing closeness and freedom. Kenny & Julia offer their intimate, but shared experience of love, vulnerability and fear - fear of "losing freedom" and fear of "losing another's love".  A very real love story with profound spiritual warmth.  It'll change your understanding and experience of relationship.

Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving,  Charles & Caroline Muir, 1989.   If you're looking for an easy to understand book to deepen relationships, intimacy, passion, and sex, you and your partner will love this one.  The authors have taken the complex practice of Tantra (a sacred spiritual and sexual practice from the Hindu's), and brought it into our century.  This book will take "ecstacy" to places you've never gone before!

101 Nights of Grrreat Romance,  Laura Corn, 1996.   A must own for everyone in a relationship that wants a lifetime of passion and romance.  Each idea is enclosed in a tear-out, perforated sheet.  Half are designed for "his eyes only", the other half are for "her eyes only".  You can take turns planning those special times.  Remarkable ideas, from the simplistic to the extravagent.  An excellent way to spice up any partnership.  My boyfriend loves this book - and so have all our friends who have received this as a gift!

The Love You Deserve: 10 Keys to Perfect Love,  Scott Peck, 1998.   This book is transforming and empowering love lives.  Great for anyone looking for a soulmate or seeking ways to take an existing partnership to the next level.  Excellent self-quizzes and exercises.  Illuminating and inspiring!!!

Centering and the Art of Intimacy Handbook: A New Psychology of Close Relationships,  Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D. 1993.   Would you like to create a personalized workshop for you and your partner?  This workbook walks you through amazing exercises that will expand and deepen your understanding of your dynamic relationship.  The workbook focuses on developing three keys to a successful relationship: awareness, honesty and commitment.  Why didn't they teach this course in college?

Enchanted Love: The Mystical Power of Intimate Relationships,  Marianne Williamson, 1999.   This book envisions a way of being in love with another person and at peace and at one with God and ourselves.  Romantic love is our newest spiritual frontier.  A refreshing approach to love, romance and enchantment.

Are You the One for Me?,  Barbara DeAngelis, 1993.   The book to help you find and keep the right partner and make love last. You'll learn everything you need to know about compatibility and how to create the fulfilling relationship you deserve whether you are- married, and wondering if you could be happier - or single, and wondering how to avoid another wrong partner.  You'll get crystal clear about what you want, and don't want.  My favorite "searching for soulmate" book.

The Five Love Languages,  Gary Chapman, 1996.  In The Five Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how different people express love in different ways. Some people are verbal, expressing their love in words. Others may never speak their affection, yet they show it by the things they do.

Intimate Communion,  David Deida, 1995. To truly understand your intimate relationships, you must read this book! Learn how to keep your relationships growing--beyond the sexually neutralized roles so typical of today--and create a relationship that is spiritually erotic, sexually deep and passionately committed to love.

The Way of the Superior Man : A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire,  David Deida, 1997.  The Way Of The Superior Man takes the reader on a powerful journey into the heart of the contemporary masculine experience. With uncommon honesty and unparalleled insight into the deepest desires of the masculine heart, David Deida explores the most challenging and important issues in men's lives.

Passionate Marriage,  David Schnarch, 1998.  The greatest sexual pleasure in a person's lifetime is possible in one's middle and later years, asserts Dr. David Schnarch, when a mature sense of self has been achieved and genuine intimacy is possible with another person.

Centering and the Art of Intimacy,
Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, 1985.  
Understand new ways of relating that transform "entanglement" into an "enlightening relationship".  Dissolve unconscious attitudes that stand in the way of spirit-soaring intimacy.  Special exercises can develop communication skills, greater self-acceptance, and mind/body awareness that allows you to be centered - fully capable of letting in love.