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		<description><![CDATA[Most people are familiar with the compounding effect of money, as its key to the long-term accumulation of wealth.  Saving a few hundred dollars each month grows into tens of thousands over time.  The principles of compounding also apply in every area of our lives, whether we like it or not.  Internalize the simple principles in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Most people are familiar with the compounding effect of money, as its key to the long-term accumulation of wealth.  Saving a few hundred dollars each month grows into tens of thousands over time.  The principles of compounding also apply in every area of our lives, <em>whether we like it or not. </em> Internalize the simple principles in this article and adopt them for a lifetime.   Doing so will allow you to more easily stay focused on what is most important to you and take the necessary action steps to realize your desires. <strong><em>Willingness is the key</em></strong>.

The compounding effect of choice is made up of two simple principles. The Mastery and Mediocrity diagram below illustrates this concept visually.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">

<strong>Principle #1</strong></span><strong></strong>

"It is the <strong>simple disciplines (choices)</strong>, that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded affect makes all the difference in the world."

<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Principle #2 </span></strong><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">

</span></strong>"It is the <strong>simple errors in judgment</strong>, that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded affect makes all the difference in the world."

<a href="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/C.E.O.C.-Graph.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2576" title="C.E.O.C. Graph" src="http://lifecoachmary.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/C.E.O.C.-Graph.png" alt="" width="271" height="245" /></a><strong>Principle #1 in Action – "Simple Disciplines" - </strong>Focus on the upper side of the graph above.  The x-axis on the diagram depicts the role of <em>time</em>, while the y-axis represents the <em>growth in mastery or success</em> of something important to you.  This could represent progress in your profession, leadership, relationships, health, mothering, creative expression or cultivating a sense of inner peace.

Each tick mark in the diagram represents one action, or "one simple discipline" or "one simple choice."  Unfortunately, the choices acted upon in the earlier stages don't reflect much growth for quite awhile. Much like saving a few hundred dollars each month, it doesn't SEEM to add up to much in the beginning stages. Without referencing this graph, it may feel discouraging and you may choose to quit before reaching your desired outcome.  However, if you were to continue repeating <strong><em>"it's the simple disciplines (choices), that don't seem to make any difference at all,"</em></strong> AND continued to take simple actions, the compounding effect would eventually kick in.  You would ultimately experience the growth and success you desire.  <em>It's simply a matter of time - AND CONSISTENT action. </em> How often do people quit when they are nearing the finish line?

There are three important elements in the compounding effect of choice.

<strong>1. Compounding Effect </strong>– Your actions will ADD upon the others.

<strong>2. Choice</strong> – ACTING or NOT ACTING is always a choice.  Choose consciously.  Frequency and effort make a difference.

<strong>3.  Time </strong>– Actions taken over time GROW.

This visual representation has proven useful to me throughout the last decade and continues to keep me on track with important objectives.  Here's one of the ways I used this principle to support my goal of fitness.

<strong>Personal Story</strong> – When I lived in Dallas, I frequented the gym.  There were many days that I did NOT feel like going.  Once there, often times I didn't feel like being there.  Can you relate? However, I simply repeated the following words in my head, over and over again. <strong>"It's the simple disciplines, that don't seem to make any difference at all, in the moment, but the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world."</strong>  Clearly, my one little workout wasn't transforming my body into a Cindy Crawford.  I could see that each time I looked in the mirror.   It WAS discouraging in the moment.  However, I had faith in the process, and these simple words of wisdom.  I trusted the compounded effect of many workouts over time, combined with a matching nutrition regime, WOULD give me results. My current level of fitness is a clear reflection that the compounding effect of choice works!

Ultimately, the habit of working out became second nature, and I rarely need to repeat, <strong><em>"It's the simple disciplines, that don't seem to make any difference at all, in the moment, but the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world."</em></strong>  However, in the early days, I used it almost every day!

Brand this principle into your being, and use it anytime you feel discouraged or uninspired to act (I do!).  It's a great reminder of the bigger picture.

<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Simple Disciplines – Simple Choices </span></strong><strong>- </strong>Reflect upon the compounding effect for each of the simple choices below.  The principle applies well in health, relationships, business success, money, self-care, self-esteem and in evolving one's Consciousness.  The principle also applies well in cultivating internal emotions and states of being, such as love, joy and inner peace.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Anything repeated over time ultimately creates a compounded result</span>.  <em>What results in your life would you like to compound?</em>
<ul>
	<li><em>Reading 10 pages of a good book</em></li>
	<li><em>Eating healthfully</em></li>
	<li><em>Spending quality time with your children</em></li>
	<li><em>Working out</em></li>
	<li><em>A simple act of kindness</em></li>
	<li><em>Saying, "I love you" to a loved one</em></li>
	<li><em>Yoga or stretching</em></li>
	<li><em>Meditating</em></li>
	<li><em>Focusing on what you appreciate</em></li>
	<li><em>Avoiding sugar or caffeine</em></li>
	<li><em>Drinking a gallon of water per day</em></li>
	<li><em>Saving money</em></li>
	<li><em>Attending seminars</em></li>
	<li><em>Listening to educational CD's</em></li>
	<li><em>Getting up early</em></li>
	<li><em>Cleaning off your desk each day</em></li>
	<li><em>Volunteering</em></li>
	<li><em>Listening closely to others</em></li>
	<li><em>One extra hour of work</em></li>
	<li><em>Being honest</em></li>
	<li><em>Being on time</em></li>
	<li><em>Pursuing a dream</em></li>
</ul>
"It is the <strong>simple disciplines (choices)</strong>, that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded affect makes all the difference in the world."
<h4>Principle #2 in Action – "simple errors in judgment":</h4>
If you want to successfully boil a frog, it's best to turn the heat up over time or the frog will jump out and escape.  I wish no ill will to frogs, however it makes the point about <strong>"simple errors in judgment."</strong>  These little actions or non-actions seem relatively harmless initially and for a period of time.  However, the compounding effect leads us to less pleasant results in our lives.  This is the model of mediocrity.

"It is the <strong>SIMPLE ERRORS in judgment</strong>, that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment, HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world."

This principle is clearly illustrated in the lower portion of the diagram above.  Again the x-axis depicts the role of <em>time</em>, while the y-axis represents the <strong><em>accumulated negative impact or atrophy</em></strong><em> </em>resulting from specific habits.  The results range from mediocrity to disaster.  This graph may depict the negative compounding effect of actions or non-action in any of the categories named above.  I find it most useful to apply this principle to the habits I would like to change.

Each tick mark in the diagram represents one <strong>"simple error in judgment."</strong>   As is the case in accumulating credit card debt, a little each month doesn't seem like a big deal.  The negative consequences don't reflect much impact for quite awhile. Without referencing this graph, it may seem that watching two hours of mindless television each night isn't hurting you in any way.   You may simply continue watching every day, while complaining about needing more time to pursue an important dream.  Two hours of television is relatively harmless.  However, the compounding effect of this <strong>"simple error in judgment"</strong> translates to 728 hours of television per year!  That is over 30 full 24-hour days in a year!

Remember these elements in the negative compounding effect of choice.

<strong>1. Compounding Effect </strong>– Negative actions and non-actions ADD upon the others and create a cumulative effect.

<strong>2. Choice</strong> – ACTING or NOT ACTING is always a choice.  Choose consciously.  Frequency and lack of effort make a different.

<strong>3. Time </strong>– "Simple errors in judgment" create ATROPHY over time.

<strong>Examples of "Simple Errors in Judgment." - </strong>Reflect upon the impact of the items I've included on the list below.  Some of these may initially appear harmless.   <strong><em>What consequences could result over time in compounding these "simple errors in judgment"?</em></strong>  What other "simple errors of judgment" would you add to this list?  This list is not intended to elicit feelings of guilt or remorse.  We have all exercised "simple errors in judgment."  <em>Use this list to stimulate awareness.</em>  In later chapters, you may or may not consciously decide to address something from this list.
<ul>
	<li><em>Watching mindless television</em></li>
	<li><em>Not saving money</em></li>
	<li><em>Spending more than you earn</em></li>
	<li><em>Being late</em></li>
	<li><em>Complaining</em></li>
	<li><em>Gossiping</em></li>
	<li><em>Eating a cheeseburger or fries</em></li>
	<li><em>Overeating</em></li>
	<li><em>Spending time with negative people</em></li>
	<li><em>Dwelling on negative thoughts</em></li>
	<li><em>Interrupting people</em></li>
	<li><em>Not being fully present when listening</em></li>
	<li><em>Speeding</em></li>
	<li><em>Smoking or using drugs</em></li>
	<li><em>Disorganization</em></li>
	<li><em>Listening to loud, abrasive music</em></li>
	<li><em>Staying up late or sleeping in</em></li>
	<li><em>Excessive time on the internet</em></li>
	<li><em>Not working out</em></li>
	<li><em>Not being friendly with others</em></li>
	<li><em>Criticizing yourself or others</em></li>
	<li><em>Procrastination</em></li>
	<li><em>Maintaining a stressful lifestyle</em></li>
	<li><em>Not taking personal time for yourself</em></li>
	<li><em>Laziness - performing below your capacity</em></li>
	<li><em>Not expressing appreciation to your partner</em></li>
	<li><em>Time in a dead-end job</em></li>
	<li><em>Too many desserts or candy</em></li>
	<li><em>Arguing</em></li>
</ul>
<strong>Contrast and Compare</strong> - Another way to use this model is to compare a "simple discipline" or "simple error in judgment" with another.
<ul>
	<li> If you read 10 pages of a good book today, and I don't, the difference between you and I on that day is pretty negligible.  In fact, after a month, the difference is still not that great.  However, if you continue to read 10 pages of a good book each day for the next ten years, the difference between you and I will be CONSIDERABLE.  If you focused your attention in a specific area of focus over that ten-year period, it's likely that you would be an expert in your field.</li>
	<li>If I eat one ice cream bar today, and you don't, the difference in our level of health is not very significant.  However, if I eat an ice cream bar every day for a whole year, and you don't – <em>all things being equal</em> – there will likely be a CONSIDERABLE difference in our health.</li>
</ul>
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Cumulative Discipline</span></strong><strong> - </strong>Generally, it's not just about the ONE single discipline, or one simple error of judgment.  Some of our choices support our growth, and some don't.  Becoming aware of these choices is the first step.  Seeing a visual representation of their respective impact is also useful in fine-tuning our choice points.  There will be numerous simple disciplines you'll apply over and over again on your path of growth.  <em>Enjoy the journey. </em>

<strong>Portions taken from Chapter 3 </strong>- <em>The Power of Inner Choice</em> by Mary Allen.  Explore 12 Fundamental Choices that will forever change the way you make choices and experience life.]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[Below are five related processes for a clarifying your 2012 vision.  Since each of us is wired differently, it's useful to find the most effective visioning strategy for you.  Some people LOVE to write goals, others avoid the process. Some love details, while others are bottom-line. Some people LOVE visualizations, and yet others do best [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Below are five related processes for a <strong>clarifying your 2012 vision.</strong>  Since each of us is wired differently, it's useful to find the most effective visioning strategy for you.  Some people LOVE to write goals, others avoid the process. Some love details, while others are bottom-line. Some people LOVE visualizations, and yet others do best in verbalizing their dreams to others.  Which style or styles resonate with you?

The most important element in crystallizing your vision is finding a medium that allows you to <strong>connect "emotionally" to your vision. </strong> We often identify goals intellectually, yet find ourselves disassociated and not compelled to achieve them.  The juice, inspiration and magic unfolds when we are "emotionally engaged" with our visions.  If you've set goals in the past with disappointing results, this may be the missing link. Being able to see, hear, feel and fully associate with what you DESIRE most, is the KEY to magnetizing it to you.

If you desire an amazing relationship, how would you FEEL if that partner was already in your life?  How would you treat them?  What activities would you enjoy together?   If you desire a thriving business, what activities would fill up your day?  Who would you spend time with?  How confident and decisive would you be?  If you desire a fit and trim body, can you imagine yourself eating healthy foods and looking forward to visiting the gym?  What would it feel like to be 15 pounds lighter?

<strong>ENGAGING the SENSES in your VISION</strong>

<strong>1.  Treasure Mapping</strong> - Creating a collage is an excellent way to engage the senses.  This process involves finding pictures and words that capture your vision or visions.  Magazines are great resources since advertising is designed to engage us emotionally.  A picture says a thousand words...and at least a dozen emotions.  A picture of a man and woman holding hands at the beach may embody feelings of romance, magic, love, connection and fulfillment.  What body-type are you striving for?  Where would you like to travel?  What kind of home would you like to live in?  Find the pictures that resonate with you.  Look for words to embody that will support you in achieving your goals - in business or personal - such as "integrity", "confidence", "creativity", "value" or one of my favorites "joy".  Create your own visuals when necessary with personal photos or Photoshop.

In 2004, I created an awesome treasure map, and nearly EVERYTHING on the poster came true.  I "made-up" the concept of <strong>"Conversations with the Masters"</strong> that year...and interviewed three of the authors I had cut out pictures of - Byron Katie, Dr. David Hawkins and Wayne Dyer.  I also had a picture of me and a wedding dress <strong>(I met my now husband</strong> in 2004).  I also created a mock book cover, and something shifted in me when I saw "by Mary Allen" on the cover.  It was August 2004 when all the pieces came together to get <strong>my first book published!!</strong>   I also cut out an Oprah Magazine cover and created a headline and put my picture on it.  In August, I was noting all that I was manifesting and thought, "I wonder how this is going to happen (meaning Oprah)."  About three days later, I received a <strong>call from The Oprah Winfrey Show</strong>.

I've done several Treasure Maps since then, with comparable results! Use "treasure mapping" as a fun, creative way to expand your vision of what's possible.  Doing this with a group is also inspiring.  The visual creates an emotional connection that creates magic.

<strong>2.  The Written Word</strong> - From listing out 10 to 100 Goals in bullet format, to describing your vision in a paragraph with lots of juicy details...the written word is highly effective at engaging the senses.  Write it down.  Don't underestimate the power of taking a passing thought and giving it life on paper.  The more you describe your vision in detail the more REAL and associated it becomes in our nervous systems.  The secret here is finding the language to elicit the emotions in YOU.  <strong>I'm a big fan of writing down my top 25 goals each year</strong>.  And, I like to challenge my clients to write a <strong>"vision paragraph"</strong> articulating their most important goals.  You may include descriptors of the end result, including how you and others feel.  It's also helpful to describe the process in which you achieved the goal.  What resources did you access?  What steps did you take? Was it easy or difficult?  Again, what feelings &amp; emotions are present?

Examples from various clients...

<strong>WRITING VISION</strong>
To organize and express my thoughts, feelings and experiences in a way that touches, inspires and empowers others to make new shifts, gain a better understanding of themselves &amp; others, so they ultimately experience more abundance, love, energy, peace, joy and freedom inside themselves. To awaken lives to a higher possibility of themselves through books, articles and courses. To creatively pursue new avenues of expression, such as media, to get the message out to more individuals in an enjoyable, and effective format that touches their hearts.

<strong>RELATIONSHIP VISION</strong>
To deepen my soul connection with my life partner by enjoying, respecting, empowering and loving one another unconditionally. To share in open and honest communication, "seeing" and "being seen", listening intently, while expressing and receiving love. To experience the joys, adventures and challenges in life with ease and resonance. To inspire other couples of what's possible in an intimate partnership. To experience a passionate, sensual, spiritual intimate relationship that exudes ecstasy, love and nourishment at the soul level. To learn, grow and evolve together in a safe, nurturing, forgiving and loving environment, ultimately bringing out the best of each individual. To create a family together that exemplifies our love and provides a nurturing home to our amazing children.

<strong>HEALTH VISION</strong>
To create and live a lifestyle which consistently causes me to be at my physical and emotional best, exemplifying and inspiring high standards of vitality, energy and physical beauty. To create a lean body with beautiful definition. No longer doing things with willpower, doing them with energy and power to burn. Every day in every way fulfilling the ideal of health.

<strong>3.  VISUALIZATIONS</strong> - Using the power of your mind to cultivate and embody your vision is another powerful resource.  Again, <strong>the more detail and emotion you can FEEL and bring to life in your body,</strong> the more effective it is in eliciting the inspiration, creativity and action necessary to fulfill your goal or dream.  Clarifying and identifying the end result and associated feelings and emotions through any of these exercises is useful preparation, and well worth the initial time investment.  <strong>Spending even a few minutes each day to expand and FEEL your vision being realized is potent.  </strong>

To help you with this process I recommend <strong>Shakti Gawain's</strong> book <strong>"Creative Visualization."</strong>  If you missed my interview with her last week, you can access it <a href="http://www.lifecoachmary.com/shaktigawain.htm" target="_blank">here</a>.

<strong>4.  FINDING A THEME</strong> -  What is your theme for  2012?  This is not about your resolutions or specific goals with "do by" dates (though I recommend that too!). This is your guiding compass for the upcoming year. Your theme will likely encompass many of your goals, but maybe not all of them.  Last year my theme was SPACIOUSNESS...and indeed, my schedule opened up allowing more time for relaxation and we moved into a home with more space!  <strong>This year my theme is TRUST.</strong>  Trusting my intuition and inner guidance. Trusting my body to communicate its needs, and me to respond!  Trusting into Divine synchronicity, being connected to the right people at the right time.  Trusting the abundance of the Universe.

In my group coaching programs, I've seen clients take on all kinds of themes.  JOY, Gratitude, Abundance, Extreme Self-Care and others. One client selected "The Year of the Donkey" to represent his commitment to losing weight, so he'd be below the 200 pound mark, and eligible to ride a donkey into the Grand Canyon.

What do you feel energy and excitement around?  What engages your imagination and feels compelling?  What theme would serve as your best guiding compass for the year?

<strong>5.  New Year Creation Questions.</strong>  Years ago, my first coach gave me a unique set of questions to help create the New Year by engaging the senses in a non-traditional way.  Who said goal-setting needs to be a linear process.  You may use one or more of the questions below to stimulate your thinking. <strong> </strong>

You may want to create an inspiring atmosphere to do this exercise in - i.e. candles, music, nature, by a fire, etc. Have FUN with this process!

Here are some additional questions to support your New Year Creating.
<ul>
	<li>If your vision were a piece of music, what piece would it be?</li>
	<li>If your vision was from nature what would it be? (Tree, ocean, brook..)</li>
	<li>What does it taste like?</li>
	<li>What does it smell like?</li>
	<li>What other senses can you use to develop your vision?</li>
	<li>What if your vision was a thousand times bigger? Describe what it would be.</li>
	<li>Use a metaphor to describe your vision.</li>
	<li>Are you forcing anything?</li>
	<li>Where can you ease off?</li>
	<li>What can you take less seriously?</li>
	<li>Are there any old rules you are holding on to?</li>
	<li>What can you eliminate?</li>
	<li>How would a six-year-old describe your vision?</li>
	<li>Ask yourself some "what if" questions. What if I ______?  (positive what if's!)</li>
	<li>Add one outrageous or wacky element to your vision.</li>
</ul>
<em>Which of processes above resonates with you?</em>

You may gravitate toward one them, or try them all.  Each process engages the senses in a unique way.  The first step is taking the time to CLARIFY and REFINE your vision - and FULLY ASSOCIATING EMOTIONALLY with that vision.  That alone can be effective at creating unbelievable momentum throughout the year.

Secondly, super-charge your visions by revisiting your treasure maps, written goals and visions, themes or spend time visualizing - CONSISTENTLY.  While you may utilize one of more of these processes in creating your vision, I recommend selecting ONE process to revisit on a regular basis.  Monthly, weekly or daily.  The more often you connect to your vision emotionally, engaging your senses, the more quickly you are likely to experience it reality. Try it.  Make 2012 spectacular!

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Every thought we think creates a biochemical response in our bodies.  These reactions vary from negligible to intense. Science has known this for some time.  If we think about food, our saliva glands may be stimulated.  When we think of the person that irritates us most, our bodies constrict and tense up.  When we reflect upon our most fulfilling moments, endorphins are released in our bodies and we feel more relaxed and at peace.  Every memory, whether positive or negative, elicits an internal physical response.  When a sexual thought crosses our mind, well...you know what can happen biologically.  But, I'll keep this article G-rated...you get the idea.  With every thought, there is a bio-chemical response in our body.

The impact of the thought on our nervous systems ranges in intensity, according to the level of <strong>"emotion"</strong> associated with the thought.  For example, reflecting on the death of a love one, is likely to create a deeper emotional response than remembering to buy toothpaste or noticing you stepped on an ant.  The more intense the emotion, the greater the impact the thought has on the physical body and the more likely we may become addicted to it.

Thoughts don't require an external stimulus to be elicited, which means we can indulge in any thought repeatedly - at any time we choose.

As human beings we experience and enjoy a <strong>VARIETY</strong> of emotions on a daily basis, yet we also innately seek <strong>FAMILIARITY</strong>...even if it's NOT positive.  The emotions we experience consistently become a part of our comfort zones and our identities...as they are habitually conditioned into our lives.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Until we get conscious about them we remain victims to these patterns</span>.

<strong><em>How CONSCIOUS are you in "choosing" your thoughts?</em></strong><em>  How conscious are you of the emotional patterns that are running our lives?  What thoughts and emotions are you addicted to?  </em>The quickest way to evaluate this for yourself is to take inventory by noticing the emotions you experience repeatedly throughout the week.  These are the emotions your body has grown accustomed to experiencing...and unconsciously works to elicit.

Anger, stress, anxiety, fear, depression, sadness, overwhelm, frustration, guilt, and worry may be a few of the thought/emotional patterns to investigate more closely.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Behind every emotion is a thought or set of thoughts.</span>  This is how they continue to be conditioned. If stress is a common pattern in your life, you may have thoughts such as, "_______needs to be accomplished before I can relax."  Or, "I have too much to do." Or, "I can't get it all done."  If depression is something you experience, something as basic as, "I feel depressed" may be the thought feeding the emotion.  We may have one or multiple thoughts feeding an addictive pattern.

You may also experience a variety of positive or empowering emotions also.  Love, joy, happiness, peace, excitement, pleasure, playfulness and a sense of purpose are a few.  Investigating the thoughts associated with empowering emotions is useful because <strong>we can learn to strengthen and intensify these</strong>, which gives us more fulfillment, power, results and connection.

As we understand the nature of thought, and these unconscious addictions, we can begin to more CONSCIOUSLY strengthen thoughts that serve and empower us -- and reduce the impact of the thoughts and emotional patterns that are debilitating.
<p align="center"><strong>THE PAYOFF</strong></p>
One of the ways we can break addictions to thoughts and emotional patterns that don't serve us is to look at the "payoff".  <strong><em>We continue to overwork an emotional muscle because at some level we subconsciously believe that it serves us in some way</em></strong>.  A "payoff" is a perceived benefit we receive when we engage the emotional pattern.

We may use ANGER because we notice that people pay attention to us more closely with this intense emotion, thus connecting with us and our ideas more.  We may connect to DEPRESSION because it may prevent us from failing if we try...or maybe it allows us to connect to others who share a similar story.  We may enjoy STRESS or ANXIETY because we believe it's what drives our motivation and we fear we'd be less productive if we eliminated it.  We may be addicted to GUILT because that means we care.  We may wallow in thoughts of ROMANCE because it gives us hope.

<strong>Unfortunately,</strong> <strong>the benefit we subconsciously believe we're receiving, is generally NOT really giving us the FULL BENEFIT we desire.</strong>  For example, with ANGER...are people REALLY paying more attention?  Are they connecting with us and our ideas in the manner we truly desire?  When we're STRESSED and ANXIOUS are we really MORE productive or less productive?  Is GUILT, the most effective way to demonstrate that we care?  Does DEPRESSION keep us safe from failing, or do we experience a greater sense of failure in the state of depression.  With virtually EVERY dis-empowering emotion there is a false payoff we subconsciously connect to, and that keeps us locked unconsciously in this addictive pattern.

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<p><strong>2.  Select 2-5 Tolerations that you'll tackle THIS week. </strong> Look over your list.  See which one or two "tolerations" would free up the most energy.  Start there.</p>
<p>Remember, it's not about handling all the Tolerations TODAY.  <strong><em>Focus on the top 1-5 each week. </em></strong> Progress happens over time.  Your "Tolerations List" should free you up, not bog you down.  NOTE:  Often "tolerations" start getting handled almost automatically once they are identified.</p>
<p>Clients who consistently commit to handling a few tolerations weekly, quickly discover how simple it is to free up energy.  Commit to eliminating "tolerations" each week.  Soon it will become a life habit you'll be thanking me for.  Mark my words.</p>
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<p>I'm NOT saying we should minimize certain thoughts like "I'm not safe."  I can't know for sure what my neighbor will do or not.  But, <b>Clomid canada, mexico, india</b>, knowing this is the thought I'm believing, I can take smart actions without dwelling on the thought 24/7.  <b>Is Clomid addictive</b>, <strong>3.  Consciously choose thoughts to create more alignment with reality. </strong> Refocusing our thoughts goes a long way in reducing the resistance inherant in drama.</p>
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<em>* Maybe it's not my job to fix the situation. </em><br />
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<p><strong><em>Example: I'm not getting what I want from a relationship.</em></strong>  <em>How am I unconsciously resisting what they ARE giving me?  How am I NOT giving what they need in relationship?</em></p>
<p>Note: For more information about "shadow work" I recommend Debbie Ford's book "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" and my book "<a href="http://www.powerofinnerchoice.com/" target="_blank">The Power of Inner Choice</a>" (Lesson #11).</p>
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<p>But, as I allow more and more time to pass between conversations, my inner peace quotient equalizes and I feel better.</p>
<p><strong>8. Intention.</strong>  The best drama-deflater for me has always been intention.  After you've seriously taken inventory of what's going on and combed the field for priceless lessons, it may be time to set a clear intention of a drama-free life.  If you're like me, who thrives on inner peace and stillness, this can happen quickly.</p>
<p>However, if you've been addicted to drama for awhile, this may take time and support. MOST people with high drama-quotients have it for a reason.  They aren't wanting to face something within themselves or in a relationship.  If you suspect this may be you, reach out to an experienced coach or therapist for expert support. It's often easier to "go within" and "confront challenging situations" when you have someone to hold your hand.</p>
<p><strong>Final Note: </strong> I don't believe eliminating drama 100% is the goal.  Life has its ups and downs.  And, let's face it, drama in movies, TV and books can be quite entertaining.  That being said, my wish for you is to see and embrace the drama in your life in a new light that can serve you, not control you.  Here's to less drama and more inner peace.</p>
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<p>For several months, <b>Differin price</b>, the words “let go” became my mantra and soon, the words “let be” replaced the original words.</p>
<p>From the mind's perspective, I wasn't sure what that meant, but watched myself begin the process of detaching from the things in my life, both physically and emotionally.  At first, I started to give away my possessions, a little at a time, <b>Differin For Sale</b>. It felt so good, <b>where can i buy cheapest Differin online</b>, had a cleansing effect, <b>Generic Differin</b>, and I wanted to get rid of more.</p>
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<p>Miro looked and me and smiled and said “I'm in!'.. .and that was all it took, <b>get Differin</b>.</p>
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<p><strong><em>Fast forward </em></strong></p>
<p>We did end up giving away all of our possessions in order hit the road for a permanent adventure. We<strong><em> </em></strong>began our adventure in the middle of 2009, starting in Mexico, traveling south through Central America to South America, where we currently find ourselves, <b>Differin For Sale</b>.  <b>Differin online cod</b>, Miro and I have committed to spend 8 years slowly circumnavigating the globe together, allowing inspiration to be our guide. Our only possessions are what we can carry with us, <b>where can i order Differin without prescription</b>, but we always seem to have exactly what we need.  <b>Differin for sale</b>, We have been traveling for nearly two years now and find meaning through discovering new cultures, contributing by being in service. The amazing volunteer opportunities that always seem to come into our lives at the perfect moment, <b>Differin brand name</b>, allow us to connect to humanity as ‘global citizens.’ We have found our rhythm in our new lifestyle as natural as taking a breath.</p>
<p><strong><em> <b>Differin For Sale</b>, But, what about Inner Peace?</em></strong></p>
<p>Before we embarked on our current lifestyle, I had a very different impression of 'travel.' My former relationship to travel was that of stress, over planning, high expectations and an unreasonable budget.  Thankfully, these things do not reflect our current experience of 'slow traveling.'</p>
<p>We have discovered that slow traveling keeps us sane, and our stress levels close to 'zero.'</p>
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<p>Our lives have shifted in so many ways, but none more profound than this discovery:</p>
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<p><em>By accepting these invitations, we found our inner peace.</em></p>
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<p>Lainie and Miro are living a location independent lifestyle, slow traveling around the globe, <b>Differin results</b>, living in the present, staying inspired, and participating in the world <strong>without fear</strong>.” Both write and podcast their experiences slow traveling, volunteering, un-schooling and being a global citizen at Raising Miro on the Road of Life Travel Blog &amp; Podcast- <a href="http://www.raisingmiro.com/">www.raisingmiro.com</a>.</p>
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