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Reading 10 pages of a good book
Eating healthfully
Spending quality time with your children
Working out
A simple act of kindness
Saying, "I love you" to a loved one
Yoga or stretching
Meditating
Focusing on what you appreciate
Avoiding sugar or caffeine
Drinking a gallon of water per day
Saving money
Attending seminars
Listening to educational CD's
Getting up early
Cleaning off your desk each day
Volunteering
Listening closely to others
One extra hour of work
Being honest
Being on time
Pursuing a dream

"It is the simple disciplines (choices), that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment; HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded affect makes all the difference in the world."

Principle #2 in Action – "simple errors in judgment":

If you want to successfully boil a frog, it's best to turn the heat up over time or the frog will jump out and escape. I wish no ill will to frogs, however it makes the point about "simple errors in judgment." These little actions or non-actions seem relatively harmless initially and for a period of time. However, the compounding effect leads us to less pleasant results in our lives. This is the model of mediocrity. "It is the SIMPLE ERRORS in judgment, that don't seem to make any difference at all in the moment, HOWEVER repeated over time, the compounded effect makes all the difference in the world." This principle is clearly illustrated in the lower portion of the diagram above. Again the x-axis depicts the role of time, while the y-axis represents the accumulated negative impact or atrophy resulting from specific habits. The results range from mediocrity to disaster. This graph may depict the negative compounding effect of actions or non-action in any of the categories named above. I find it most useful to apply this principle to the habits I would like to change. Each tick mark in the diagram represents one "simple error in judgment." As is the case in accumulating credit card debt, a little each month doesn't seem like a big deal. The negative consequences don't reflect much impact for quite awhile. Without referencing this graph, it may seem that watching two hours of mindless television each night isn't hurting you in any way. You may simply continue watching every day, while complaining about needing more time to pursue an important dream. Two hours of television is relatively harmless. However, the compounding effect of this "simple error in judgment" translates to 728 hours of television per year! That is over 30 full 24-hour days in a year! Remember these elements in the negative compounding effect of choice. 1. Compounding Effect – Negative actions and non-actions ADD upon the others and create a cumulative effect. 2. Choice – ACTING or NOT ACTING is always a choice. Choose consciously. Frequency and lack of effort make a different. 3. Time – "Simple errors in judgment" create ATROPHY over time. Examples of "Simple Errors in Judgment." - Reflect upon the impact of the items I've included on the list below. Some of these may initially appear harmless. What consequences could result over time in compounding these "simple errors in judgment"? What other "simple errors of judgment" would you add to this list? This list is not intended to elicit feelings of guilt or remorse. We have all exercised "simple errors in judgment." Use this list to stimulate awareness. In later chapters, you may or may not consciously decide to address something from this list.

Watching mindless television
Not saving money
Spending more than you earn
Being late
Complaining
Gossiping
Eating a cheeseburger or fries
Overeating
Spending time with negative people
Dwelling on negative thoughts
Interrupting people
Not being fully present when listening
Speeding
Smoking or using drugs
Disorganization
Listening to loud, abrasive music
Staying up late or sleeping in
Excessive time on the internet
Not working out
Not being friendly with others
Criticizing yourself or others
Procrastination
Maintaining a stressful lifestyle
Not taking personal time for yourself
Laziness - performing below your capacity
Not expressing appreciation to your partner
Time in a dead-end job
Too many desserts or candy
Arguing

Contrast and Compare - Another way to use this model is to compare a "simple discipline" or "simple error in judgment" with another.

If you read 10 pages of a good book today, and I don't, the difference between you and I on that day is pretty negligible. In fact, after a month, the difference is still not that great. However, if you continue to read 10 pages of a good book each day for the next ten years, the difference between you and I will be CONSIDERABLE. If you focused your attention in a specific area of focus over that ten-year period, it's likely that you would be an expert in your field.
If I eat one ice cream bar today, and you don't, the difference in our level of health is not very significant. However, if I eat an ice cream bar every day for a whole year, and you don't – all things being equal – there will likely be a CONSIDERABLE difference in our health.

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We've all experienced the popular notion that "our thoughts shape our reality". When life is working well, it's easy to focus on thoughts that feel good and perpetuate success and happiness in our lives. However, what do you do when you are attached to thoughts that clearly don't serve you? Below are 7 Keys to making the shift. 1. AWARENESS - Before we can influence our thoughts, we need to become aware of them. How do you know there is a disempowering thought lurking in your mind? Your EMOTIONS serve as signals to catch your attention. These feelings may be subtle or extreme. A feeling that "something is off", discomfort, anxiety or a mild sense of resistance or depression is worth paying attention to. Some reactions are blatant and obvious, serving as giant clues that the mind has attached to a thought. Become a detective and identify the thought or thoughts that are associated with the feeling. Awareness is the first key. You cannot shift what you are unaware of. 2. Is it true in REALITY? So often, the thoughts that drive our feelings have no basis in reality, leaving us attached to thoughts that are simply fantasy. When an event happens, our minds instantaneously attach a meaning (meaning is a synonym for "thought") to the occurrence. Separating the FACTS (what happened) from the MEANING or interpretation is one way to connect to reality. It's important to recognize the myriad of ways that we distort reality. We EXAGGERATE or MINIMIZE it. We DENY it. We think it SHOULD be different than it is. We ARGUE with it. And, we FORECAST it. Each of these results in stress or anxiety. When the mind recognizes that a thought is NOT true in reality, it often simply releases the thought. Getting in touch with the REALITY of the situation is the second key to shifting thoughts. 3. Identifying Impact - Often times a thought that we investigate appears to be factual or true in reality, yet the resulting feeling is one of stress, anxiety, or sadness. Death, accidents, unmet expectations, annoying sounds, flat tires, and deflating stock markets happen. Some of the feelings associated with these events can become "addictive" in a strange way. We connect with others through sadness or disappointment. The adrenaline rush of anger can also give us a sense of certainty or power. When a thought is true in reality, but you're finding the result is not serving you -- it's time to identify the impact. If you continue to attach to this thought, how will it make you feel? How will you treat others? How will you live your life if you constantly focus on this thought? When the mind comprehends that there is more pain associated to a thought than pleasure, the mind often simply let's the thought go. As we discussed in last week, it's also helpful to identify the perceived PAYOFF. Typically the benefit we unconsciously believe we're receiving, isn't REALLY giving us what we desire. When the mind realizes this, it lets go of the thought more easily. Identifying the impact is another key to transforming thought. 4. Willingness - In order for any transformation to occur, one MUST be WILLING to shift. Someone can know they have a food, TV or alcohol addiction, but without a genuine WILLINGNESS to shift - NOTHING will disrupt the destructive behavior. Such is the case with thoughts that one is consciously or unconsciously addicted to. That authentic willingness works magic. 5. Just Let Go - Sometimes unresourceful thoughts arise, and we can simply let them go because they don't serve us. The inner critic may say, "Who are you to think you can do that?" or "This isn't going to work", or "What if you fail?" Maybe the thought is trivial negativity or fixated on something that can't change. The most powerful part of you can respond with a simple, "Thank you for sharing", and let it go. 6. Redirect Focus - Our minds are like children. Whatever you place in front of them becomes the focus of their reality. When caught up in addictive thoughts, consciously redirect your focus on something more positive or neutral. If your spouse is running late, embrace the beauty in your environment. If you find yourself frustrated in traffic, focus on your breathing, music in the car or the opportunity to relax and slow down. LANGUAGE is a powerful means of redirecting your focus. Consider shifting your internal dialog. Choose words that empower you over words that deplete your energy. 7. SCRAMBLE the Thought - Tony Robbins and NLP practitioners know of this powerful tool, and it's simple for anyone to use by themselves. You simply must be WILLING to try it. If you've been embracing a negative mantra over and over in your mind, simply recognizing its impact may not be enough. Let's take a mantra like, "I have so much to do". To scramble this sentence, or any other, do the following.

Say the sentence 5 times really fast in a MICKEY MOUSE voice (yes, I'm serious).
Say the sentence 5 times really slow in a COWBOY'S voice.
Say the sentence 5 times is your most SENSUAL and SEDUCTIVE voice.
Say the sentence 5 times BACKWARDS (i.e. "Do to much so have I").

You must play FULL OUT. If you're playing full-out, you'll find yourself laughing out loud. Just continue until you've made it all the way through the 4 steps above. When you're done, notice how you feel about the original sentence. Most people experience the sentence as neutral or humorous after completing this exercise. The addictive thought has been transformed. Try it!! 8. Replace It. As you loosen the grips on the thoughts that don't serve you, it's important to replace them with something more empowering - so the thoughts don't have a home to return to. Consciously choosing the antithesis of the original thought is a simple solution. Another way to find a replacement is to turn the statement around. Identifying a thought that is "as true" or "truer" than the original statement. Or it may simply align more with what you want to create or attract into your life. In the example above, "I have too much to do", could be transformed into, "I'm on track", or "It's all going to get done". As long as the replacement is more powerful that the unresourceful, you're on track.

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Mary Allen — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:53:57 +0000

Every thought we think creates a biochemical response in our bodies. These reactions vary from negligible to intense. Science has known this for some time. If we think about food, our saliva glands may be stimulated. When we think of the person that irritates us most, our bodies constrict and tense up. When we reflect upon our most fulfilling moments, endorphins are released in our bodies and we feel more relaxed and at peace. Every memory, whether positive or negative, elicits an internal physical response. When a sexual thought crosses our mind, well...you know what can happen biologically. But, I'll keep this article G-rated...you get the idea. With every thought, there is a bio-chemical response in our body. The impact of the thought on our nervous systems ranges in intensity, according to the level of "emotion" associated with the thought. For example, reflecting on the death of a love one, is likely to create a deeper emotional response than remembering to buy toothpaste or noticing you stepped on an ant. The more intense the emotion, the greater the impact the thought has on the physical body and the more likely we may become addicted to it. Thoughts don't require an external stimulus to be elicited, which means we can indulge in any thought repeatedly - at any time we choose. As human beings we experience and enjoy a VARIETY of emotions on a daily basis, yet we also innately seek FAMILIARITY...even if it's NOT positive. The emotions we experience consistently become a part of our comfort zones and our identities...as they are habitually conditioned into our lives. Until we get conscious about them we remain victims to these patterns. How CONSCIOUS are you in "choosing" your thoughts? How conscious are you of the emotional patterns that are running our lives? What thoughts and emotions are you addicted to? The quickest way to evaluate this for yourself is to take inventory by noticing the emotions you experience repeatedly throughout the week. These are the emotions your body has grown accustomed to experiencing...and unconsciously works to elicit. Anger, stress, anxiety, fear, depression, sadness, overwhelm, frustration, guilt, and worry may be a few of the thought/emotional patterns to investigate more closely. Behind every emotion is a thought or set of thoughts. This is how they continue to be conditioned. If stress is a common pattern in your life, you may have thoughts such as, "_______needs to be accomplished before I can relax." Or, "I have too much to do." Or, "I can't get it all done." If depression is something you experience, something as basic as, "I feel depressed" may be the thought feeding the emotion. We may have one or multiple thoughts feeding an addictive pattern. You may also experience a variety of positive or empowering emotions also. Love, joy, happiness, peace, excitement, pleasure, playfulness and a sense of purpose are a few. Investigating the thoughts associated with empowering emotions is useful because we can learn to strengthen and intensify these, which gives us more fulfillment, power, results and connection. As we understand the nature of thought, and these unconscious addictions, we can begin to more CONSCIOUSLY strengthen thoughts that serve and empower us -- and reduce the impact of the thoughts and emotional patterns that are debilitating.

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One of the ways we can break addictions to thoughts and emotional patterns that don't serve us is to look at the "payoff". We continue to overwork an emotional muscle because at some level we subconsciously believe that it serves us in some way. A "payoff" is a perceived benefit we receive when we engage the emotional pattern. We may use ANGER because we notice that people pay attention to us more closely with this intense emotion, thus connecting with us and our ideas more. We may connect to DEPRESSION because it may prevent us from failing if we try...or maybe it allows us to connect to others who share a similar story. We may enjoy STRESS or ANXIETY because we believe it's what drives our motivation and we fear we'd be less productive if we eliminated it. We may be addicted to GUILT because that means we care. We may wallow in thoughts of ROMANCE because it gives us hope. Unfortunately, the benefit we subconsciously believe we're receiving, is generally NOT really giving us the FULL BENEFIT we desire. For example, with ANGER...are people REALLY paying more attention? Are they connecting with us and our ideas in the manner we truly desire? When we're STRESSED and ANXIOUS are we really MORE productive or less productive? Is GUILT, the most effective way to demonstrate that we care? Does DEPRESSION keep us safe from failing, or do we experience a greater sense of failure in the state of depression. With virtually EVERY dis-empowering emotion there is a false payoff we subconsciously connect to, and that keeps us locked unconsciously in this addictive pattern. However, if we slow down and question this logically, we'll quickly see that the payoff isn't really giving us what we're seeking. When we do this, the mind has a way of releasing its grip on that thought. Thus, creating room for a new emotional and thought pattern that can serve us better. SOULFUL Challenge: Increase your AWARENESS around the most dominant thoughts that you experience throughout your week. Pay close attention to the emotional patterns that aren't empowering you. Identify the thoughts or set of thoughts that are driving the emotion. See if you can find the subconscious "payoff" or benefit that allows you to indulge in this pattern, and see if it's REALLY giving you what you desire. You may experience the pattern diminishing or vanishing completely.

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Meditate Daily (a true 365 day goal -- no exceptions)
No Chocolate or Candy
No TV (or 2 hours per week max...and really hold yourself to it)
Average 5 workouts per week
Floss Daily
Say "I love you" to spouse or loved one
No swearing
Read 30 Books (I did that one year...and found myself reading 10 books in December!)
No alcohol (one friend did this...and loved how he felt, so never started again)
Save $_____per month (no matter what)
Write down 25 Appreciations each day
No French Fries or Fried Food
No pasta
No breads
No Ice Cream
Vitamins Daily
Walk dog daily (somebody furry will love this one)
Make bed daily
Wash dishes daily
No fast food
Yoga or stretching daily
An act of kindness daily (you can always visit Denny's a midnight to find people to be kind too)
No complaining
No gossiping
Write in journal daily
Express "appreciation" to spouse daily
Hug at least one person daily
No soda (I know some of you NEED to do this one)
No coffee (replace with Green Tea)
No cheese or no dairy
No red meat
Read 10 pages of a good book daily
Writing daily (great for writers!)
Calling a loved one daily
Visualizing a goal daily
Sending yourself unconditional love
Purposefully feeling JOY daily

Have fun with this. I'm missing my French fries, but I have to admit I feel GREAT when I've "just said no." Feel free to share with me your commitment for the year, and maybe you'll inspire other readers by your 365 day goal.

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* Maybe things are perfect the way they are (and I just can't see it yet).
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Note: For more information about "shadow work" I recommend Debbie Ford's book "The Dark Side of the Light Chasers" and my book "The Power of Inner Choice" (Lesson #11).

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But, as I allow more and more time to pass between conversations, my inner peace quotient equalizes and I feel better.

8. Intention. The best drama-deflater for me has always been intention. After you've seriously taken inventory of what's going on and combed the field for priceless lessons, it may be time to set a clear intention of a drama-free life. If you're like me, who thrives on inner peace and stillness, this can happen quickly.

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Final Note: I don't believe eliminating drama 100% is the goal. Life has its ups and downs. And, let's face it, drama in movies, TV and books can be quite entertaining. That being said, my wish for you is to see and embrace the drama in your life in a new light that can serve you, not control you. Here's to less drama and more inner peace.

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C is the SUM of A (the fact) + B (the made up stuff). It's the FACT, now distorted by whatever you made up. Simple mathematics reveals that “anything" (A) + "something" (B) is now = SOMETHING NEW (C).

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2. Look at the fact or event for WHAT IT IS. It's neutral. Pull the emotion out of it. Don't take it personally. Imagine a stranger not calling back. It's ALWAYS the meaning we ‘make up’ that distorts everything. Remember this.

3. INQUIRY. In a previous article, I talk about "the work" of Byron Katie called Loving What Is. Katie's four questions allow you to examine the "made up" thought. Which 100% of the time reveals it is, in fact, "made up" and silly to hang on to. To learn more about "inquiry" visit www.thework.org

4. ‘MAKE UP’ THE OPPOSITE - If you're going to ‘make up’ something, why not try on the opposite, especially when it feels better. "He doesn't love me anymore" turns into "He still loves me, maybe even more". It could be as true or truer. And, until you KNOW differently, it feels better and supports you in getting more of what you want.

SOULFUL CHALLENGE: Monitor yourself for one week. Notice when you're ‘making stuff up’. Ask for clarification when needed. View the fact or event as neutral. Let go of the ‘made up’ stuff. How would your life be if you didn't ‘make up’ stuff??.

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